We were in love. so it seemed. but the relationship was intense and strong for about 4 months, then came to and abrupt and unexpected end. Her call. She said she was getting too attached, and scared so she broke everything off cold. So its been 3 months since then, and I'm trying to live my life. yet at every single thing, not just a few times a day, but EVERY SINGLE THING will remind me of her. even things as trivial as a cup of coffee or a street sign. my thoughts seem to be drawn to her.. and i just dont know what to do anymore. I've tried reading, watching tv, playing video games, meeting other girls, traveling, movies, working, writing. but somehow she is manifested in every thing i do. i don't know if I'm just really really really love sick and time will cure, or if this is a problem. (a common one, or a rare one?) I don't hate her. i tried to but i cant. but i cant love her either. its just neutral feelings. I want to keep living my life now.. What can i do??